Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Tough Love vs. Spanking - Good Argument

Hello Everyone! My friend Andrea sent me this awhile back and thought you all would like to read this advice from a dad...:) Enjoy! By the way, don't look at the picture til you have finished reading his letter!


Tough Love vs. Spanking - Good Argument

Many Americans think it improper to spank children, so I have tried other methods to control kids when they have one of 'those moments.'

One that I found effective is for me to just take the child for a car ride and talk.

Some say it's the vibration from the car, others say it's the time away from any distractions such as TV, Video Games, Computer, IPod, etc.

Either way, my kids usually calm down and stop misbehaving after our car ride together. Eye to eye contact helps a lot too.

I've included a photo below of one of my sessions with my son, in case you would like to use the technique.

Sincerely,

Dad

12 comments:

Julz said...

Yeah, Baby! I LOVE that picture!! I also want to say that I love to read what you have written to the kids. I just think that is so precious and will be treasured by them. They are lucky to have you for a mom and I am so glad you're my sista!

Jennifer said...

Where you going 99 in a 35 MPH zone?

Heather said...

I laughed so hard when I got that email. I sent it to several people in my family. It cracks me up everytime.

Julee said...

Thanks for the good laugh this morning, I needed that! :o)

Alisha said...

I love it!

Jamie C. said...

Hilarious. Could you imagine driving down the street and seeing that! I'd think, "that's a great parent!" ;)

Fisher Family said...

Very funny Laurie..needed to laugh today :)

Megan said...

Love that one!

We aquired our fourth light saber of the house hold for Wes's last birthday. So I know your pain when things get broken. Sad.

I loved you post on Luke. The thing I remember about him was how he stuck his tongue out ALL the time when we was around 8-9 months old. It was so funny because it was square! Do you remember that? Yeah, he's a cute one. Watch out!

Sara said...

That is just plain hilarious! Thanks for sharing!

Esther said...

You Layers and your mean parenting!

todd & nicole said...

http://twilightersanonymous.com/Quizzes/Find-out-which-female-character-you-are.html

I saw this and thought of you.

Anonymous said...

lol! that's was too funny! thanks for the laugh:)